What to Know About Our Survivor Sparks Forums

HOW THE DISCOURSE FORUM WORKS

  1. You go to the button at the top of our page! (If you’re on a laptop, the button will also be to the right of this. If you’re on your phone, it’s on the bottom of this page.)

  2. You sign up with your email (which won’t be public) and make a username.

  3. You pick which group to join: Male or Female Survivors. (If you identify as non-binary, but were assigned male or female at birth, you are more than welcome to join the corresponding one!)

  4. Hit request to join!

It can take up to one day to join, but once you’re in, you can start posting and responding to fellow survivors!

HOW THE DISCORD WORKS

This is much simpler, just click the button join our safe, private server!

FAQ

  • Anyone!

  • Both are 100% free to join!

  • Safety is our number one priority. You can remain anonymous if you want, and your email address will never be publicly displayed. We spent months deliberating the safest options for survivors.

  • Of course! YOU get to decide your username!

  • You will be removed if you partake in any of the following:

    -Name-calling

    -Saying hurtful phrases to fellow survivors

    -Doxxing

    -When you're talking about your rapist, either refer to them in their first or last name. This is a pro-survivor platform, and all about your healing journey, not them.

    -Are in the incorrect chat, and still haven't moved, despite warnings.

  • Every day, we will ask questions for you to ponder while on your healing journey. We will also post lesser-known facts about being a survivor on BOTH servers.

    You can post, reply, and more.

    We encourage discussion!